Ghosting
Ghosting is cutting off all the chords with someone without giving any explanation or reasons for doing so. It can happen in friendships or romantic relationships. It is not only limited to social media or text, It can happen across all social occurrences.
Why men Ghost?
You were talking to your man of dreams, making promises to each other, and your unconditional love towards each other, and the next morning you find his profile picture removed from all the social platforms, his phone number no longer in service.
Experts say that the real reason for ghosting has nothing to do with you or only a little. Often, it's them who are having attachment issues, underdeveloped emotional issues, and self-conflicts. We are not here to justify his wrongdoings but to help you figure out what might have led him to leave out of sight.
You were just a rebound
This might come to you as a shock but there is always a possibility of being a rebound to him. I know nothing hurts more than anything is a rebound to someone without being told. He came and did not invest emotionally in you and left.
He had it all planned.
Fear of Commitment
Ghosting you certainly points a finger toward fear of commitment. Emotionally immature men never care about what they just have promised and their next step is going to break them all. They fear committing and keeping promises.
He was exploring
Well, this seems a bit harsh but babe, could he never stop talking about the girls he met before you? He already had it all in his head to not get too attached to someone. And when he did not find it comfortable or worth exploring, he came up with ghosting.
He might have found you dominating
What he has been doing for you was just out of obligation to make you feel heard and loved, of course, it had to come to an end. And ghosting was never a good option but you might have forgotten that he has the individuality to act in accordance. When you love a person, you can not tell them to change just because you do not like it.
He couldn't picture a future with you
This is disheartening to accept but this one can be a solid reason to tick him off. It is because of the incompatibility you two had or the trust issues. When you find out the real reason you must acknowledge it and forgive him.
This is never to justify ghosting but to help you move on quickly.
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