The absolute right of a person lies in the state of absence of all restraints around them. The natural liberty of doing whatever they want in their desired manner. When you allow restraints to be effective upon you, you start to lose the very essence of natural liberty and normalize the absence of it. It starts from your home, where you learn to justify small but harmful limitations told to follow by your family members. It seems fine and obvious till you come on your own. You start to differentiate among things. From concrete to abstract, your brain lets you know what restraints are valid and what is not. Then comes the urge to refuse, deny to act but you feel helpless. Here is how to deal with these unreasonable restraints and of course learn about their importance.
Value your life experiences
We are given only one life and all the things that are happening because they have a reason to happen. And if you are only letting those occur around you, you extract nothing from it, you are not valuing your life experiences.
Trust your thought process
In order to regain your liberty of basic things, you have to trust your way of doing things. Just because someone is doing better than you and ask you to follow the same, you may start to see things happening faster but it won't make you happy. Because you left your pace, you did not respect your thought process.
Let your actions speak for yourself
It is okay to feel barred for speaking of very simple and natural liberty, I know it is exhausting but if you won't show them how much it matters to have all the small freedoms, they will come back with another restraint because for them it felt easier to capture you again. Always let your actions speak for yourself, be consistent, and see the difference.
Wait until all your freedoms clusterise
Once you see all your freedoms clusterising, you feel the sense of liberty coming back to you. How it feels like functioning on your own, free from all the absurd do this and not that. Maintaining sanity goes hand in hand with choosing your liberty. Do not let people decide where you are going to put your left foot after the right one.
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