Family trauma

Sep 22, 2023

Secrets to a Strong Marriage: How Keeping My Parents Away from My Husband Strengthened Our Bond

Secrets to a Strong Marriage: How Keeping My Parents Away from My Husband Strengthened Our Bond Marriage is a journey filled with ups and downs, twists and turns, and a whole lot of compromises. For…

Sep 05, 2023

Secrets to Raising Happy and Resilient Children in a Modern World

In an ever-evolving world filled with technological advancements and shifting societal norms, parenting has become more challenging than ever before. Parents are faced with the responsibility of…

Jul 21, 2023

Becoming a Great Dad: 13 Traits No Father Should Be Without

Becoming a father is a transformative experience that comes with great responsibilities and rewards. As a dad, you play a crucial role in your child's life, shaping their growth and development. It's…

A Woman using Digital Tablet Sitting on the Bed

Jan 04, 2023

Cutting Off The Invasive Relatives Is The Best Decision I Took This Year

Four days of the new year have almost gone and we are not sure if we made a good start. Covid and its waves are not leaving us, climate change, and cold weather has become the latest hindrance in…

If you are going to start your life with someone who has children from an earlier marriage then it might be a difficult role for you to play. Not because you feel like forcibly pampering them or you are hesitant but it is the children that can not see their mother's replacement. Since they were never raised this way to not feel insecure and threatened about a new mother or Aunt getting close to their father. Being a stepmother comes with a constant reminder for a woman that she is a replacement and she gott

Nov 08, 2022

Why Being a Stepmother is the most Difficult Role for a Woman

The whole world is already tougher for women and them being peacefully playing their roles. Although the term peacefully here is not so full of peace apparently because there always has been…

If you give some time to your struggles' patterns and their reasons for occurrence you might find a fascinating yet disappointing answer which is Family. Loving your family and worshipping it is what you have memorized to the core of your brain since childhood and now there is no coming back. You were happy till now because you were not on your own, you were provided with food, clothes, education, and of course a guaranteed vacation with your family. But now you have stepped out of that baby plant zone to

Oct 28, 2022

Why Desis' Struggles mostly revolve around their Family

The younger generations have come far from where the older generations were ages ago. Being a desi, If you give some time to your struggles' patterns and their reasons for occurrence you might find…

Once you see all your freedoms clusterising, you feel the sense of liberty coming back to you. How it feels like functioning on your own, free from all the absurd do this and not that. Maintaining sanity goes hand in hand with choosing your liberty. Do not let people decide where you are going to put your left foot after the right one.

Aug 19, 2022

Importance of Freedom from unreasonable restraints upon you by Others

The absolute right of a person lies in the state of absence of all restraints around them. The natural liberty of doing whatever they want in their desired manner. When you allow restraints to be…

People will tell you— Family that eats together, stays together but no one is ever going to tell you that members of a family who interrupt every basic right of yours are toxic to your every aspect of health. This is why it is important to make emotional distance from them because, in the end, you are always going to be on your own.

Jul 30, 2022

Saving Yourself from Toxic Family Members

The worst thought that never leaves us living in a toxic family is that what if we end up becoming toxic people ourselves? We do not want to treat people the way we have been treated throughout…

A toxic family dynamic has the pattern of making you feel miserable, unloved, and discouraged. When you come to realize the truth by then your important time has already been gone. So when was the right time we could have taken a step and spoken up for ourselves?

Jun 24, 2022

Worst Family Environment and finding Right time to Speak Up

Daily Soaps and Cinema have been portraying family toxicity as an unbreakable bond among family members. It has always been filling minds with false and unnecessary expectations. Where the eldest…

At times she would behave mean and blame me for every tiny problem caused by her ignorance.

May 15, 2022

My own mom said what I have even done for her

Toxic relationships can be found anywhere. In families, they don't even accept the word "toxicity". They layer it with care, label it with attachment towards the child, and whatnot. Coming from a…