Imagine, attending your friend's wedding party and seeing her getting proposed by her man in a uniquely romantic way and your mind starts playing with you by flashing up the stories about the day when you were asked out by your partner.
Didn't that make you happy? Didn't you jump with happiness the way he swept you off your feet? You felt like the luckiest girl in the world.
What happened to those feelings? Now you watch others and think, "Wow, they really are gorgeous together. They have everything, Can't I have that"?
These kinds of thoughts are going to put your relationship in trouble. Trust me, It's high time to stop comparing your relationship to others.
Here are a few things you need to understand to avoid unnecessary stress in your life.
- When you scroll through your social media and you are seeing pictures of a Baby shower or Ring ceremony. You are never gonna know what exactly happened just before the photographer took that picture. You are never going to be told how someone's Mother in law was not happy about the dress they wore or maybe someone argued right before the "say cheese" picture. They never upload it on social media.
- The next important thing we often ignore is that we always put ourselves last. Every beautiful thing that happened to us seems least in front of others. Why be so hard on ourselves. If you are struggling to avoid this negativity, try to note it down and analyze why you keep imposing your life on others' frames.
- Trusting in yourself and your partner's way is also an important action to maintain the freshness of your relationship. Appreciate every little romantic gesture, and talk to your partner about their day. After all in the end Love is just conversation.
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