Marrying a dream partner is one of the best moments in our lives. So many hardships, bad circumstances, and all the fighting we cross to be with the one, we dreamt of. Seeing your marriage on the verge of falling leaves you broken, but all marriages are not the same. Not everyone lives happily ever after but at least we all deserve to choose again for ourselves. So that we have nothing to regret in the future.
When a marriage takes turns into an unhappy marriage, it already had gone through the holes of separation. Before it gets too late you should make a decision and read these signs if your marriage is over.
SIGNS
Lack of commitment
One of the main reasons which causes partners to move apart is a lack of commitment. Chances of separation reach it's hight if you are not committed to your partner. Instead of blaming each other for disharmony in the relationship you two should talk and discuss the split.
Holding grudges
Couples who keep bitterness toward their partners for some wrongs they did(cheating, annoyance by certain behaviors, family abuses, irresponsibility towards kids) are not likely to persist chances of repairment.
Unwillingness to cooperate
If you are married to a person who is not helping or cooperating to maintain the relationship then there is no space for love. Taking responsibility for your role and understanding it better brings you close to your partner but if the spouse is not ready to cooperate, your marriage will eventually fail.
Lack in Intimacy
The connection you feel with your partner enroots with the act of intimacy. But if any of you two show disinterest in intimacy, there must be a reason which is troubling you. Be it stress or something else. Lack of intimacy can cause infidelity, isolation, and anger.
Continuous comparison to others
A continuous spousal comparison is what a therapist can not help with. When you compare your relationship with others, you disrespect what you have. You hurt your partner's sentiments and lose faith in you from them. Remember why it has been said, "Comparison is a thief of joy."
WHOM TO BLAME?
Separation, Divorce, Split, or Break up are the words we have been taught to look for something to play the blame game. Why don't we choose peace? If your marriage hasn't worked out it means there always was a problem. If you two have decided to split up then do not platter people around you with excuses and blame targeting your partner. Respecting each other's decisions is what you can do to lessen the bitterness.
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