If you are one of those girls who are waiting to be asked out by their shy crushes, stop daydreaming and you got to do some real work by the new year. Oh, don't give this "why me?" look, you are not alone in this, there are many other girls who are waiting for ages for their shy crushes with a flower in hand, quite a dream right? This is not the 90s anymore when only guys could make their first move and girls were judged if asked anyone out. Shy guys are the cutest and truly deserve to be asked out by a badass girl. The new year is almost here and you have a few days left to prep. Here are those subtle ways to ask a shy guy out and not give him a panic attack.
Get to know his likes/dislikes
An awesome way to connect with shy guys is by asking about their likes/dislikes. This way you should also test yourself whether with his likes and dislikes you are okay. The most important thing you should know before going a step further is to know them very well. Shy guys don't even talk about their likes and favorite things because they think people would make fun of their old-school choices. And you are not expected to treat them like one of those.
Make them feel noticed
A very common thing for shy people is that they think no one notices them because they are not like those fancy people who are extroverted and confident. If you really feel for him then make him feel noticed. Appreciate his work, of course, this should be a genuine call. They might be shy but they understand things well.
Don't reply to them late
This a very subtle way to go before asking a shy man out. While chatting don't reply to them late, they might feel ignored. Use light and fun emojis, if possible send them memes of common interests. Use endearment terms only if they feel comfortable.
Lead the conversation naturally
When you finally think he likes you and taking interest in you but is very shy to say it out loud then take it slowly further. Again reminding you to make sure he is in a good mood. Lead the conversation so naturally like, "Hey I was watching this video and it reminded me of you, Went to this place and thought of that picture of yours that you took here. Would you like to come for a coffee?"
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