When it comes to long-distance relationships, we run after the data internet has provided, which saysâ Forty percent of all long-distance relationships end in breakups, and on average those relationships last just four and a half months. We are not saying that a long-distance relationship does not create insecurities, it does but whenever something like that comes into your mind, try and get to know the reason behind it.
Because not everyone has a relationship partner, be it a long-distance or short-distance relationship. If you are with someone try not to ruin it with insecurities in your head. However, it is hard to deny those feelings, when you start your journey in a long-distance relationship. Here is how to tackle your insecurities and jealousy.
Why Insecurities?
Has your partner ever made you feel insecure by his behavior? If your partner makes you feel loved and cared then there is nothing to be insecure about. Although if your partner does something under suspicion then you need to talk about it before it goes any further.
Trusting your partner
Do not hesitate to discuss the things that bother you, if you do not like anything about their behavior just let them know in the first place. Trust your partner and let your actions speak about it. Do not feel insecure about them meeting other people. Think about yourself, how would you feel if your partner does not let you meet your friends without them?
Availability
Smartphones have made it a lot easier to be in constant touch with your partner. Availability does not mean talking to them 24 hrs in a day, but it is about showing your emotional and virtual presence whenever needed the most. This will help your relationship go stronger than ever.
Paying full attention
In a relationship, partners need to be heard by each other. paying attention to what your partner has to say is the best way to show your love toward building a strong long-distance relationship.
Sharing what is going on
People often get confused about what to do to fill the gaps. Whilst there are a lot of things to do to keep your relationship interesting. Share all the important things happening in your life, and let your vulnerabilities about. Do not pretend to be someone you are not, be real and keep it real. People are out there to laugh about hearing one more long-distance relationship failing due to pretenses.
Doing something special
Surprise your partner by doing something that makes them happy. Sending them their favorite chocolate or flowers, or buying them their favorite book. If you two or either of you is creative then have a safe and commonplace online to write or post something only you two share.
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