Since no one can be a perfect friend and there is nothing to be guilty of. False friendships only lead you to hurtful events and ugly memories. Before you develop one, we have tried compiling all those red flags in friendships that people need to see and know. A friend is someone who can let you live the way you are, they won't ever make you feel uncomfortable about your clothes choice, your food habits and everything that should be your personal choice. So how do we know if someone you are sitting next to is not going to flip their side and start torturing you in the name of friendship? Here are those signs that tell you they definitely are not your friend.
They dominate you
If you have one of those people around who puts everything on the top according to their choice. Like, they can not eat at a certain restaurant because the chairs there are not comfy enough to relax their ass, and they won't let you eat after 9 pm because their dinner time is over, you gotta clean everything that they find cleanable, etc.
They force you to do something uninteresting
A friend with red flags comes with a lot of inconsiderable torture. One of the major signs that tell you they are not your friend is that they forcibly drag you into things you don't enjoy but they do. By calling you less interesting, they take you out against your will. One true friend will never ask you to do anything that you feel like wasting your time. We all can have different interests and be friends.
They invade your privacy
It is very basic and understood etiquette to not invade anyone's privacy. Just because you call them a friend does not give them all the right to barge into your private moments, be it with your family or your boyfriend. No one has the right to take your special moments for their "can be waited" gossip.
They demean you in front of everyone
When you go out with them, they suddenly switch on their "I am Perfect" mode and start raising questions about your clothing style or your way of talking to other people. Have you faced this situation too with that friend of yours? Sorry to say, but they are not your friend.
They play victim-blaming
How long have you been holding yourself accountable for every mishappening while living with them? Do you realize that you always have tried to make peace with that but has it ever worked out? Because they are pro at pointing out illogical and stupid reasons that have hurt them apparently. They will blame you for their life falling apart and you did it intentionally. What is it? A TV drama?
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