Do you also spend your valuable time blaming others instead of making efforts to change the situation? Do you have a lot of complaints about people and you feel easily disturbed by them? Do you constantly fight in your head with the negative person with better replies? If any of these things are happening to you, you gotta stop and take a moment to think because your personality is not in your control anymore. You have given the full authority over yourself to the negative person which might not be present but still, they can are taking away your ability to think according to you.
Negative people are sweet poison, initially, they seem harmless but as they take over full control, they drive you mad. Therefore it is important to deal with this negativity as soon as possible. This is a compilation of a few ways to help you get over this.
Save your time from getting consumed
Negative people can be someone close to you but it does not make them eligible to take control of your time. They drain you mentally and after talking to them you left off with nothing productive to do. To save your valuable time you have to watch your actions strictly and when start overthinking, try to convert them into something meaningful.
Catch the negative thoughts
The only way to stop yourself from getting affected by the negative person and their behaviors are to watch over your thoughts. Let positive and productive thoughts pass by and catch negative ones. Stop or turn them away.
Be confident and trust your decisions
The worst thing about negative people is they can easily spoil someone's mood with their objections. For example, if you are with them at a party and if they find (sure they will) something disappointing, you are going to catch the fire too. They will keep complaining knowing nothing is going to change and ruin your party. So, decide if you are going with them, you won't let them spoil everything for you.
React only where they listen to you
When you will react less and respond calculatively, the negative person will weaken their strength of dragging you in. When they will see that you don't care about their rants and you don't have enough room for their complaints, they may stop sharing with you but stay aware they come back too.
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