There is no denying that breakups hurt the most and it completely changes a person and their point of view to see things. We all start fearing thinking about its consequences and traces on us. When you invest a large amount of time and effort, go through a complete transition because love makes us try those things that we kept at a very distance from doing. You can say to love is to dare certain things that we often have been told to be aware of by some people. But it doesn't mean that you should waste your life in fear of them instead. Those people who have gone through one or several breakups have this very habit of making/repeating these common mistakes post-breakup and never learn from them.
Not meeting new people
This one is very common and frequently made mistakes post-breakup. Here is what everyone needs to realize that people come and go but life goes on with and without them. Breakup is haunting and especially when you never saw it coming. But what we have to avoid is not meeting new people, not making new friends. If you will not meet new people then how are you going to shatter the spread of lies? How else you'd ever come to know that it is not about the people, it is about the time and chemistry?
Leaving people in the fear of them leaving you
This crap has covered a lot of people in its plague. I mean, what is wrong with today's people? Just because of some shitty stories in their heads people tend to leave their new partners post-breakup. And justify it by saying, "it was about to happen anyway, so let it be this way." Leaving people in the fear of them leaving you shuts many doors you probably missed noticing and later you feel miserable why it happens to you only.
Connecting the dots with their past
Again another 'innovative' mistake people make after a breakup is connecting the dots with their past. Even if they start anew after moving on, they can't help linking their past with a little sign of inconvenience. I have seen many people gifting the same thing to their current partner that they gave their ex or expecting the same reply on a certain emoji. Grow up, people differ that is why you dared to move on. Try out different places and things to avoid awkwardness.
Wasting their time on the wrong people
In frustration, people often start talking to the wrong people just to make their ex jealous. If you examine this you'd know that there is no point in doing such a stupid thing. It will only eat your time and peace. Better take some time off social media and focus on the tasks from your bucket list.
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