Have you ever given any thought that why everything feels so good in your relationship and the very next moment you sense unknownness with your partner? Definitely, it does not happen intentionally but still, it leaves you shattered and full of frustration.
This happens when your partner does not open up about their feelings or what is going on inside their head. Not everyone feels comfortable about sharing their feelings, but when you are with someone, it gives you a chance to reframe the situation and understand the reasons behind this. Experts always have been saying why honest communication and transparency are important for any relationship to last longer. If you have developed the required emotional intimacy and your partner still does not open up then you might need to reconsider your relationship with them but first read on these things listed below to have a clear shot.
They do not discuss their future plans
When you are getting to know each other, it is important to share your goals and plans for the future with your partner. Be it having kids or buying a house, your partner should be comfortable sharing these with you. If they don't, it means your relationship is struggling to stand tall.
Career and Finances
When you are planning to spend your whole life with someone, that someone has to have no hesitation when it comes to discussing their career and finances. These two are important aspects of understanding each other, so if they avoid talking about these then the rest is in your hand.
Weakness and Vulnerabilities
If your partner chooses to stay alone in their vulnerabilities and does not allow you to talk about that later, it is going to affect your relationship and you won't be able to figure out how to react and what to say because you were never a part of this.
Ugly mistakes and pasts
When your partner hides things from you in the name of being judged, do not go for it, there is no such thing to be ashamed of in a relationship. When we make promises of togetherness and love we already have accepted their mistakes and pasts.
Health and illness
This one plays an important role in building trust. If they are not open about their illness and health history and fear talking about their unwellness, you certainly can not trust them. Either they show transparency about the serious issues or you make a necessary move.
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