Think about a person to whom you haven't talked or met in years and now that person starts annoying you purposely. You waste your whole day wondering why they are doing this and then you realize the ugly fight you two had a long time ago and you hold your head almost try not to lose control. Why? What is wrong with them? You two have come so far that it doesn't matter who said what back then. Well, some people never find peace in anything at all. And there is no single reason why they behave like this. Let me share the possible reasons behind these idle people being insane.
They are envious
The very common and simple reason is they are jealous of you, of what you have achieved. Since they can not make it up to that (because they are wasting their time spreading negativity) so they would do anything to put you down.
Attention seeker
Another yet very common characteristic of people troubling others for no reason at all. These kinds of people do anything to grab the attention of others at the cost of your loss or harm. They would talk senselessly about you to create gossip and then completely deny the fact of what they have been doing.
Finding pleasure in fake realism
Yes, it is true. Some people enjoy seeing you in trouble especially caused of them. An immense sense of success(they call it) makes them do it again and again. Since they haven't accomplished anything better and never had the courage to speak up for themselves in their odds so they try to lower the morale of people who are fighting and achieving something out of it. They think seeing you in trouble is making them happy, actually, it is not. It is just their preassumed situation they are living in it avoiding and escaping reality.
Miserliness and lonliness
These people try to contempt others whom they see as successful and are often lonely by heart. They feel miserable in putting pieces together to start anew so they get back to what might make others feel belittled.
They would keep provoking the target until that person gets trapped.
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