Having the personality of those who you have been most influenced by makes you feel validated in your head. Have you ever given it a thought that what you tell people about your opinions is actually not yours?
Your actions, behavior, and choices are based upon someone else's identity. It makes them. There might be similarities among people but do you sit and try hard to get what you want to have or do you just see someone doing things and you just add it to your list too?
Psychology behind this
Personality confines a personâs relatively stable feelings, thoughts, and behavioral patterns. If your personality is stable, it does not mean that you are going to remain the same. You keep evolving through your life experiences. Changing your behavioral patterns behind the borrowed personality can give you the spotlight for some time but someday it is gonna leave you to feeling miserable about yourself. Psychology says that seeking validation under someone else's traits will not make you feel free. It is going to suffocate you and by that time you won't have the energy to collect your left desires.
Ask yourself questions
You keep saying that you love to explore yourself no matter how much time it is gonna take, you are going to follow what your heart desires. But has it not only ceased to be your social media caption?
Start now
Stop running behind the number of likes and comments you get on your social media. You are more than that. Make a note about what you like and read more to be clear about your opinions, you can take notes from the person you admire but make sure that work is originally yours.
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