Talking to your soon-to-be mother-in-law on calls and meeting her for the very first time are two completely different things. Both of you might have gone along or seem to be the coolest on calls and texts but your or her impression might not be the same when you two meet. We are not scaring you but this is what almost every girl has to say. The excitement together with nervousness comes free when you have the plan to see your would-be mother-in-law. Well, we suggest that you better take a guided tour here based on the conversation with some of our beautiful women who shared the experience of meeting their mothers-in-law for the very first time.
Don't pretend to be an Extra-Sanskari
Yes, probably your mother would have told you to be shy and quiet in front of her which is not exactly what you are. Don't make this silly mistake borrowed from the cinema romantics. Your mother-in-law is not someone what TV serials have to show, she would definitely appreciate your honest behavior in case she doesn't, hey... then this is a heads up for you.
Don't intervene in her private matters
It is good to show how much you care and worry about her matters but it would be a hurry to give any advice this sooner. Listen to her and if she asks for your opinion then you can mix your concerns with this.
Don't disrespect her way of showing love
Mothers-in-law can be emotional and cozy in welcoming their new member of the family. You should not be making faces if it gets too much for you, you gotta understand her excitement for you too.
If she gifts you some jewellry and you don't like wearing one then you should not return it. Take the gift and say thanks to her that she gave you something that belonged to her and tell her you will keep it safe.
Do not overshare things between you and him
It is cool to talk about your relationship and how you two met and your first date but be careful, there must be some things your boyfriend told you and she would not want you to know this early. Let your would-be-husband tell you something too and don't interrupt if the mother and son start sharing with you some of their memories.
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