Separation in our society works on the idea of sorting out unwanted relationships or fixing unhappy marriages. Divorce was never an option. Women and young girls are often found juggling between their toxic exes and daring again to love. Most women are avoiding taking strict actions against their insane ex-partners because they went against their parents to fall in love in the first place. According to Indian society choosing a boy to marry is the parents' responsibility.
Cinema, daily soaps, and social media are filled with this toxic and sick mindset and are openly sharing concepts of cheating and then fixing the relationship because it represents the people who respect their culture.
Adults following Toxicity from films
In India men following and stalking women on roads has always been considered normal. Cinema has the guts to portray the lead character annoying the actress and claiming to love her. And the irony is that woman falls in love with him too after so many episodes of toxic masculinity. Adults and teenagers admire such pseudo-heroism and practice imitating possessiveness.
Self-destructive behavior: Compromising an unwanted marriage
Women and young girls suffer fragile egoism and dominance from their partners and are left with no choice but to separate their ways, which is a fair decision. Any person has this right to choose whom they want to live with. But it is not as easy as it seems. Self-destructive behavior to trouble and blackmail women has forcibly made them accept the harsh reality and injustice.
Conditioning in the family: A major no to unlearning
Daughters remain to choose their abusive partners because this is what they have been seeing their older generations do. Any woman who starts unlearning and revealing the taboo asks not to raise a finger or question the long-held belief and the social norms.
Mothers manifesting to remain "pure" and "ideal" by not choosing a divorce
Women fearing the tag of divorce and separation are the result of their mothers not being supportive of their daughters. Telling them this is how their fate was written, it happens in marriages, or everyone has to sacrifice is one of the most unfortunate reasons women tolerate toxicity.
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